Is Your Self Image Holding You Back..?

Sat, Jan 2, 2010

Mindset

What is Mental Management?

It is a system to control the mental aspects of your performance.  And it’s your performance under pressure that determines if you win in business and in life.  The difference between champions and those that fall short of the mark and those who never achieve their goals or peak performance is mindset.

Champions are confident and in control.

Champions have developed habits and attitudes of a winner and that is encoded in their ‘Self Image‘.  And guest what…, that mental management system can be learned and it is possible to redefine your self image in as little as 21 Days.

Why Winners Win

Self ImageFACT – 95% of all winning is done by 5% of all competitors.  What makes the 5% different?  There is only one thing that separates the winners and that is ‘the way they think’. Winners know they will finish first… the others hope to finish first.  So if the seeds of greatness vest in all of us the only change that needs to be made is a mental one – how we think!

Winners say, “I’m going to do it” or “I’m going to win today”… simply put if you don’t expect to win you have no chance in winning.  The expectation of winning comes from an internal feeling the champion has concerning his performance.  He is in harmony with with the idea that his expectation and his performance will be equal.

Performance is 90% mental. To control performance in competition you need a system… you need a ‘mental management system.

“Mental Management is the process of maximising the probability of having a consistent mental performance, under pressure, on demand…” – Lanny Bassham

When you compete really well you are balanced and in harmony with your efforts.  This occurs in three mental components; the Conscious Mind, the Subconscious Mind and the Self Image.

The Mental Management System

The mental management system focuses on integrating these components;

  • The Conscious Mind – this is the source of your mental pictures… it is the images that you hold in your mind.
  • The Subconscious Mind – this is the source of your skills and power. We develop skill through repetition of conscious thought until it becomes automatically performed by the Subconscious Mind.
  • The Self Image – it makes you act like you.  It is the sum total of your habits and your attitudes.  Your performance and your Self-Image are always equal.

Principles of Mental Management

These principals govern how the mind works.  Success is not an accident.  Success follows a set course, and these principals are the path;

Principal 1 – Your mind can only concentrate on one thing at a time. If you are picturing something positive in your mind, it is impossible, at the same time to picture something negative.  Why is this important?  Because it is impossible to picture winning and losing at the same time… So the choice is yours!

“I take control of what I picture, choosing to think about what I want to create in my life…”

Principal 2 – What you say is not important.  What you cause yourself or others to picture is crucial.  This is the fundamental principal of successful communication.

“I always give myself commands in a positive way. I remind myself that what others are picturing, as a result of hearing me speak, is crucial to proper understanding..”

Principal 3 – The Subconscious Mind is the source of all mental power.  All of us has within us the power to achieve anything we desire.  The reality is most people only use 5% of the power available to them because few people are willing to put in the effort and gain the knowledge to rise up to their full potential.

“I am so well trained that all of my performance is Subconsciously done. I trust my subconscious to guide my performance in competition..”

Principal 4 – The subconscious moves you to do whatever the Conscious Mind is picturing.  Being positive is our only hope. Positive demands positive results from your Subconscious.

“I realise that my Subconscious power is moving me to perform what I am Consciously picturing. I control what I picture and picture only what I want to see happen..”

Principal 5 – Self Image and performance are always equal. To change your performance, you must first change your Self Image.   The self image, made up of your habits and attitudes, makes you “act like you”. Your self image directs your behaviour. The boundaries of your comfort zone are defined by your self image.

If your purpose and true destiny exist outside your comfort zone then to reach that higher purpose means redefining your Self Image. Until this BreakThrough is realised nothing significant will change in your life.

“I am aware that my performance and Self-Image are equal.  I am eager to change my habits and attitudes to increase my performance..”

Principal 6 – You can replace the Self-Image you have with the Self-Image you want, thereby permanently changing performance.  NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE UNLESS YOU CHANGE YOURSELF FIRST.

“I am responsible for changing my Self-Image. I choose the habits and attitudes I want and cause my Self-Image to change accordingly..”

Principal 7 – The principal of balance.  When the Conscious, Subconscious and Self-Image are all balanced and working together, good performance is easy.

“I cause my Conscious, Subconscious and Self-Image to move forward being in balance, thereby increasing my performance without frustration..”

Principal 8 – The principal of Reinforcement. The more we think about, talk about, and write about something happening, we improve the probability of that thing happening!

“I choose to think about, talk about and write about what I wish to have happen in my life..”

Principal 9 – The Self-Image cannot tell the difference between what actually happens and what is vividly imagined.  Mental Rehearsal when used properly to reinforce good habits and a winning attitude, can greatly improve your chances of success.  Rehearsal is the most often used mental tool because it is logical, easy to use, convenient, inexpensive, and most important, because it works.

Goal Setting

There is only one habit that separates the top 5% of all competitors who win from the others – Setting Goals!

Follow this simple goal setting system;

  1. Decide exactly what you want
  2. Decide when you want it
  3. List the pay-value
    1. List all the reasons, feelings and emotions
  4. Determine the obstacles in your way
    1. What habits and attitudes must you change
  5. Outline your plan to achieve your goal
  6. Ask some important questions
    1. Do I believe in my plan
    2. Can I work my plan
    3. Is the prize worth the price
  7. Schedule your plan for action
  8. Start Now
  9. Never Reach your goal without setting another higher goal
  10. Never quit

Redefining Your Self Image

The Self-Image is the sum of your habits and attitudes.  Your habits determine how you act.  Changing your Self-Image is the most powerful skill you will ever learn.  When the Self-Image changes performance changes and so do your results. There are four important tasks;

  1. You must be willing to undergo change and move beyond your comfort zone
  2. You must identify the habits and attitudes that you need to change
  3. You must set up a new Self-Image that is in direct conflict with the old one
  4. You must adopt the new Self-Image

“NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE UNLESS YOU CHANGE..”

The fastest (and safest) way to change your Self-Image is with the ‘Directive Affirmation Technique”.

“The Directive Affirmation is the most powerful tool for changing the Self-Image..” – Lanny Bassham

The Directive Affirmation Technique

The Directive Affirmation is a paragraph written in the first person present tense that describes a person’s goal, pay value of the goal, plan to reach the goal and habits and attitudes affecting the goal. It is rehearsed repetitively, causing the Self-Image to change.

These are the steps;

  1. Define the goal
  2. Set a time limit to achieve the goal
  3. List the personal pay value of reaching the goal
  4. Outline the plan to achieve the goal
  5. Write a Directive Affirmation in the first person present tense… begin with the words – ” I AM “
  6. Make 5 Copies (at least) of the Directive Affirmation in your own handwriting on 100mm x 150mm cards
  7. Place the cards in five prominent places (these are called ‘key points’)
  8. Each time you come to a Key Point READ and VISUALISE your Directive Affirmation with feeling and emotion.
  9. Run this Directive Affirmation for 21 Days, then rest for 9 Days and repeat IF necessary (with or without modifications if necessary) OR replace it with a totally new Directive Affirmation

Soon, as your Self-Image changes you will become that person described in the Directive Affirmation.  Your performance now will Subconsciously improve permanently.  There are only two possible outcomes with this technique… 1/ You WILL become the person you want to be OR 2/ You will quit and continue to get the same results in your life… it is that simple

Again….

“NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE UNLESS YOU CHANGE..”

The above information is largely extracted from the following book; The Mental Management System – With Winning In Mind by Lanny Bassham.  Additional information can be found at www.mentalmanagement.com

From the Desk of Drew Innes

“Never Lose Sight of Your Dreams, be a 5%er and Dream BIg…”  Follow this format when writing your Directive Affirmation - BE, DO, HAVE….

BE…
I AM so happy and grateful now that I AM …… (Insert your state of being / goal) ……

DO…
It is LIKE ME to …… (Insert your actions / adjectives here) …….

HAVE…
As a result I HAVE and ENJOY ……. (insert your goals / benefits here) …….


Here is a Directive Affirmation example;

Step 1 – Define the Goal. ‘To be a Peak Performer and Top Income Earner in the Direct Sales Industry’

Step 2 – Set the Time limit.  ’By 30th June 2010′

Step 3 – List the personal pay value of reaching your goal

  • I have taken my next step towards financial independence
  • I am present in my children’s life. I enjoy the time freedom to educate and influence my children through life experiences traveling the world.
  • Our family homes are a sanctuary for living, loving, learning and leaving a legacy.
  • I enjoy the recognition of being one of the best performers in my Industry and Company
  • I experience the greatest joy when helping other people achieve their full potential

Step 4 – Outline the Plan to Achieve the Goal.

  • I have implemented and live by the 5 Pillars of Success
  • I take massive action in my Marketing everyday and have allocated an appropriate budget to achieve my financial goals.
  • I have a workable ‘Daily Method of Operation’ and monitor my Key Performance Indicators each week
  • I am positioned at Destiny in the compensation plan and attend every conference.
  • I give back to the my community by always acting with Integrity and contributing on most calls and Host / Present events / training whenever possible
  • I exercise daily for 1hour and read / listen to audio books for 1 hour per day to ‘keep the axe sharp
  • I READ and VISUALISE my Directive Affirmation daily

Step 5 – Write a Directive Affirmation (in your own handwriting so YOU own it) See below example (but don’t copy mine…)

 

1st January 2010

I AM so happy and grateful that I AM serving on the Global Leadership Team and being a Peak Performer and Top Income Earner in the Direct Sales Industry.

It is like me to meditate daily and visualise my goals being achieved. It is like me to have the mindset and habits of a peak performer because I am a daily student of personal and professional development.  It is like me to have an abundance of leads and people joining my team because I take massive action everyday, marketing my business.  It is like me to follow the system of success and generate $50k/month in income.  It is like me to mastermind with Leaders in the Industry and to collaborate and pay forward value to others.  It is like me to be consistent and persistent in my actions, playing full out and being the leader that expects and achieves results.  It is like me to exercise my body, mind and soul daily to maintain peak performance.  It is like me to read and visualise my directive affirmation daily.

As a result I have and enjoy financial independence and time freedom to be present in my children’s lives.  I love the sanctuary of our family homes and feel blessed to accommodate my family through all stages of their life.  I enjoy the freedom to educate and influence my children with world travel so they grow up with broad cultural experiences.  I enjoy serving other people and helping them live with purpose and passion.  I enjoy the recognition as a Peak Performer and Top Income Earner in the Direct Sales Industry.

I AM so happy and grateful that I AM serving on the Global Leadership Team and being a Peak Performer and Top Income Earner in the Direct Sales Industry.

“I AM Wealth, I am Abundance, I am Joy, I am Infinite Possibilities, there is nothing, I cannot Be, Do or Have….”

I am currently a member of the Global Leadership Team and a recognised Peak Performer in my business opportunity.  I am steadfastly becoming a recognised peak performer in the Direct Sales Industry. I will be a Industry Top Money Earner by June 2010. I am working towards Financial Independence over the next 3 years and currently enjoy time freedom with my children and traveling the world…. “Dreams can come true…”

Author: Drew Innes

Self ImageA former Property & Finance Executive and now one of today’s most successful Online Entrepreneurs. Drew is an International mentor and coach in the Direct Sales Industry specialising in Personal Development, Business Systems, Online Marketing and mentoring people on ‘mastering the inner game of wealth’. Learn from Drew and create ‘your own economy’ to take back control of your life.

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21 Responses to “Is Your Self Image Holding You Back..?”

  1. Suz Hutchings Says:

    Fantastic Blog Drew! Such a basic resource anyone has access to is to set goals and make them happen.
    We are taught at such a very age in life to set goals, it costs us nothing to do this, yet so many people are not aware that a simple mindset change can create an amazing life for themselves and their precious families!
    Best of luck with your June goals, and look forward to hearing about your success!
     

  2. Belinda Truman Says:

    Great Blog Drew,  A fantastic summary of the best points in this book. Haveing read " With Winning in Mind"  twice now I am amazed that to a small degree most of us have applied this in our life at some point with out knowing what we were doing.   So just imagine what can happen now with this available to anyone who wants to change their mindset and life.
    Success will be yours in June for sure Drew.

  3. Carol Alexander Says:

    Well done Drew! So great to see you actually implementing what we've had the privilege to learn about. Your commitment to your goals and self discipline are truly admirable. I have no doubt you'll achieve every one of them and will be living your dream. Both you and this blog are an inspiration.

  4. Diane Green Says:

    Wow you are awesome Drew. This is a fantastic way to share such a great resource and this is so like you to be so sharing, so focussed on serving. Thank you and I will delight in seeing you with your Top Performers award

  5. Juli Parker Says:

    Nice work Drew. Not only do you share such rich resources, you are indeed a rich resource yourself. I feel very fortunate to be working with such an enormous talent. You certainly deserve all the success and abundance you 'attract'. I ordered this book whence you first spoke about it but have not read it – this is my wake up call obviously.

  6. caron robinson Says:

    Truly inspirational blog Drew, you are very generous with your knowledge and insight.
    I look forward to using this and working on my 'self image'
    Many thanks
    Caron

  7. Karen Smith Says:

    Drew, This was a wonderful of explaining the seeds of greatness within each of us.
    Thanks for sharing. Karen

  8. Regan Williams Says:

    What an incredible synthesis of the whole manifestation process. I have never gotten so much in such a short reading. From theory, to ‘how to’, to ‘how I did it’ in a seven page blog — pretty amazing stuff.

    You have both found and conveyed the simplicity on the other side of the complex. Thank you for sharing, and I look forward to putting your strategy to work!

    Regan

  9. Kim Says:

    Outstanding Drew! Detailed and simple. I think I have complicated the process in the past. Your summary or what you ARE and WHO YOU ARE are clear and cover all aspects of your life. The secret or the key in my mind is consistency and BELIEF! Thank you for this wonderful information!

    Kim

  10. Malini Hayward Says:

    I used to know this… I used to practice it daily…. I could come into a new country and say “I will have a job in one week – and I did”
    I could say… “I will have a car by the end of this month” – and there it was in the driveway. Don’t get me wrong, there is action to be taken DAILY but the results were always what I expected.

    When did I forget how to do this?

  11. Megan Says:

    Hi Drew,

    I just wanted to share with you how much of an impact the directive affirmation technique, that you shared on your blog, has had on me. Its funny because I started doing my affirmation a couple of months ago but got sidetracked. Perhaps I wasn’t ready back then, I don’t know. Then a couple of weeks ago when you started talking about it on your calls, I hadn’t actually been listening to those calls, but for some reason felt that it was time to get my affirmation finished, so I did. I have really been focusing on getting me, and my body, mind and soul right over the past few weeks.

    I’ve probably been reading and visualising my affirmation for about a week and a half now and I’ve already noticed the difference. I am starting to become that person. Emotional blocks that I have had for years have gone and I have finally gone to the naturopath to get help with some health issues that have been plaguing me for a while. I am meditating with out fail once per day, sometimes twice. My head is clearer, I have more energy and and am starting to trust myself and what I am capable of (this is the first part of my affirmation).

    Content domination is my focus for marketing, however I have been floundering and procrastinating with little direction and focus, feeling overwhelmed and not knowing where to start or look for a clear strategy. Within about a week of doing my affirmation you did that amazing training and it has opened a whole new world of resources for me. Training and resources that I never knew existed I have suddenly become aware of. I am so focused, determined and excited by what is ahead of me.

    I just really wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking your precious time to help me succeed. I really appreciate it. I think that if it wasn’t for your training and guidance, and the support of our community I probably would have given up and gone back to a J-O-B. But that is not an option for me now. The only way is forward towards my goals and dreams, and I can really see them now. And now I know, like I know, like I know that I’m going to do it, and there is NOTHING I CAN NOT BE, DO or HAVE.

    Megan

  12. Nathan Gonzalez Says:

    Drew, I read this post twice, awesome stuff!
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  13. Alecia Says:

    WOW, great tips. A lot to soak in to apply.
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  14. Nicky Says:

    Fantastic post Drew- really enjoyed reading this and I have taken some notes.

    So many people in our industry put the “mind stuff” to the end of the “to do” list when in fact it should be right at the top. I am SO much more productive in my business when I am feeling positive, healthy and focused.
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  15. Dean R Black Says:

    Drew this is an awesome post. If more people payed attention to their mindset then there would be a lot more successful people period. It reminds me of the Cool Hand Luke movie when the warden tells Paul Newman ” we are going to get your mind right son” They did but in the wrong way. If everyone who is struggling would get their mind right then that would be half the battle.

    Thanks for sharing.
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  16. Drew Innes Says:

    HI Dean, this ‘Self Image’ post is one of my all time favorites. I attended a 3 Day personal development in Cancun Mexico and Troy Bassham was one of the presenters. He delivered a presentation on the “Directive Affirmation Technique”, which I personally believe is one of the most powerful techniques to develop NEW winning habits and attitudes to achieve ANY goal. I followed up this training with a 90 Day Brain Training program by John Assaraf. When you combine the two the result is Bullet Proof belief in any intention that you have and the attainment of any goal you have set.

  17. Drew Innes Says:

    Hi Nicky, I couldn’t agree more… if you crave success then you must have ‘rituals of success’. Mine include meditation, affirmations, exercise, good food, hydration, personal development and lot’s of income producing activity in my business DAILY…. according to Napoleon Hill if I could add Sex to that it would be a perfect recipe (not sure if my wife would buy into that one lol…. Hill states and I quote, “Sex energy is the most powerful of all stimuli that move people into ACTION”. An action is the only thing that produces results..

  18. Drew Innes Says:

    Hi Alecia, soak it up. This is a very simple strategy once you know it. The power is in the writing format of the ‘directive affirmation’… not only is it in the present tense it is also structured in BE, DO, HAVE which most people get completely wrong looking outside of themselves or blaming circumstances for their results. As an FYI, my Key Points for my affirmations were the car, the back door, the toilet wall, the fridge and my personal favorite laminated in the shower. Napoleon Hill refers to this as, ‘Auto Suggestion’ and explains in Think and Grow Rich that this process can cultivate the state, know by many as ‘Faith’.

  19. Drew Innes Says:

    Hi Nathan, thanks. Do yourself a massive favor and get a copy of “With Winning In Mind”… you won’t be disappointed. The enhancement to Lanny Bassham’s technique that this post articulates is the BE, DO, HAVE affirmation structure. It amps up the technique and connects the State, with the Action and the Results.

  20. Hamish Says:

    Hello Drew,

    Amazing post! Really.

    As a blog owner myself, I am going to guess that you get your fair share of “great post. I have bookmarked and will return often” type comments – but really, that would sum it up for me.

    I got a lot out of that – you could easily turn that post into an ebook and sell it. I have bookmarked this blog and I absolutely will be back for more.

    Thank you for that.
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  21. Drew Innes Says:

    Hi Hamish, thanks for visiting the site. Your absolutely right. The directive affirmation technique could definitely be turned into a fantastic “How To” guide.


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